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How do you deal with miscarriage? I found out a couple of days ago my little angel is gone. The is like the 7th in 6 years. I took the first one very badly. The others I did not let myself get attached. I was 15 weeks and we had it named this time. I am not in anyway okay this time. I wanted that baby. I am not coping and the doctor said just give it time. To be honest I would rather die to be with my child this time. Everyone thinks I am over reacting. I just can not function! Does anyone hav any suggestions? I just do not want to live with out a child. I do not know what to do, has anyone faced this? I bite my husbands head off for even speaking to me, I even told him to leave me, that I am not a real woman. I am 34 years old, I do not know what to do! Pregnancy - 3 Answers - 2010-03-12 17:09:20 Best Answer I miscarried last year. I chose to name the baby, although everyone thought I was nuts. My prayers are with you "Some say you are too painful to remember, I say you are too PRECIOUS to forget!" All Answers Answer 1 I miscarried last year. I chose to name the baby, although everyone thought I was nuts. My prayers are with you "Some say you are too painful to remember, I say you are too PRECIOUS to forget!" 2010-03-12 17:16:05 Answer 2 I am very, very sorry that this has happened to you more than once. You're a real woman ... some woman cannot even conceive at all, does this make them 'not a real woman' ... no. I understand about what you said to your husband, but he obviously loves you and wants a child w/you. I wonder what is going wrong for you to have a miscarriage? Have you all consulted a doctor about this? I would say next time you're pregnant, you should be monitored a lot to help ensure a healthier pregnancy. Fortunately, you're still young & it sounds like you don't have a problem w/fertility at all. Have you been highly stress w/each pregnancy after your first one in fear of what has happened? I would tell you not to stress, but that is such a difficult thing to ask. I don't know if any of this helps ... but, I truly am so sorry. You can always pray, He has a listening ear up there. Take as much time as, YOU, need to heal ... don't let other people pressure you into anything. We all have different grieving times. Good luck to you & God Bless. I pray you find some comfort & peace in this trying time ... 2010-03-12 17:21:29 Answer 3 I'm so sorry for your loss. I have went through one miscarriage, and it makes me cry every time I think about it. I couldn't imagine having several more than that. Since you are feeling so depressed, you should really seek help from a counselor. They will listen to you, understand your feelings, and help you get over these losses. You are a real woman, just like the rest of us and you should not place guilt on yourself. Try to remember that and and allow your husband to support you during this difficult time. Best of luck to you 2010-03-12 17:46:29 |